|> join(:inner, [r], f in assoc(r, :follower))
|> where([r], r.state == ^:follow_pending)
|> where([r], r.following_id == ^id)
|> join(:inner, [r], f in assoc(r, :follower))
|> where([r], r.state == ^:follow_pending)
|> where([r], r.following_id == ^id)